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Is He Just A Friend - Or Is He Interested In You? - 16 Tips!
By: Carlos Cavallo

If you've ever been in love with a guy and wondered: Is he just a friend or is he interested? - you're not alone. When a man and a woman hang out, even if they're only friends, there's always going to be a little bit of sexual tension.

Many studies have shown that the number one problem between male and female friends is the level of attraction they start to feel for each other. And usually it can be unbalanced.

Something else they find is that men are more likely to be attracted to their female friends than the other way around. And he is also much more likely to misunderstand how much his female friend likes him back.

The reason is that men will often keep the chance for romance open far longer than a woman would.
Many women can decide in just a few minutes whether a man is a good prospect for a relationship or not. And once he's in the friends bucket he doesn't usually get out.

If you add to this the fact that men are usually the initiators when it comes to romance, you start to see how the gender roles can sometimes get confusing!

But you want to know whether or not your guy friend could be interested in you. There are some easy signs you can look for that will help you figure this out.

Let's talk about which signs are friendships and which signs and which are romance as you figure out is he just a friend or is he interested.

Just friends - Tip #1: It's always a posse
One of the biggest signs that your guy friend is not interested in romance is if he only hangs out with you in a group of friends or coworkers. He might suggest group activities, or parties where there's not a whole lot of chance for you to being alone with each other.

If a guy is into you, he wants to be ONLY with you. He will want you all to himself.

If he's interested in you for romance, it's more likely that he will try to make a group get together turn into a solo get together with you.

But if he avoids any situation alone with you, that's a sign that he's keeping it "just friends."

Just a friend? - Tip #2: He won't touch like YOU touch
When it comes to physical contact, guys have a tough time holding back when it comes to women. You may have experienced this with guys who are a little too handsy with you.

It's not that he is trying to be a lewd pervert, it's just that guys see beauty and they want to touch it. When a man is attracted to a woman he wants to touch her.

So if you have touched him affectionately, and he has not reciprocated back after that, there's a good chance he's not that interested.
Or he's just incredibly shy and afraid of rejection.

But the fact of the matter is if he isn't willing to overcome his shyness or fear to make a move and initiate, you would not be happy in a relationship with him.

Try to imagine a marriage of 30 years where you have to do everything. Yeah, like that.

You might not want to risk the rejection yourself, in which case now you know what it's like being a guy and having to risk your self-esteem every time you make a move.

Sometimes though, this is the only way to figure it out. You may have to "test the waters."

If he is interested, he will take your approach as being an invitation for him to move forward. So all you have to do is put it out there once.

Is he a friend or more than that - Tip #3: Are you just a dude to him?
Watch how he treats you when you're together with him. If a guy acts like you're just one of the guys when you're around, that's usually showing that he thinks of you as a female friend.

If he burps, farts, cusses like a sailor, jokes with you like you're one of his male friends, that's usually an indication he thinks of you as "one of the guys."

Another important tip is if he doesn't seem to notice that you are a woman, or he makes a lot of flubs that tell you he doesn't see you as being a female, that's a surefire indication he isn't attracted to you or romantically interested in you.

What's Going On? Tip #4: How much you hear about his romantic life
One of the easiest ways to figure out whether or not he's just a friend or interested in you for more is simply listening to what he talks about.

Does he talk about his ex-girlfriends?
Does he talk about a specific ex-girlfriend all the time?
Does he avoid talking about his romantic life?
Does he avoid -

For the rest - watch the video!

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Carlos Cavallo
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Is He Just A Friend
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