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Does My Guy Friend Like Me? 16 Signs To Look For
By: Carlos Cavallo

Sometimes your guy friends might make you scratch your head. They act a little bit flirty, or maybe hold eye contact a little too long, and you start to wonder “Does my guy friend like me?”

The truth is, many men try this tactic for working (sometimes weaseling) their way into a woman's heart. For whatever reason he may not feel confident enough to approach you directly with his feelings. So he might try to be your friend first in an effort to woo you.

After all, if he were to listen to a lot of his female friends, he probably hear the same advice come out all the time:

“Look, I just want to be friends first...” - as she complains about the guy that "moved too fast."

Most guys don't know that friends first is actually a recipe for failure. Chances are, you know this as well.

Romance starts with a BANG - not a fizzle.
Most romantic relationships run into trouble if they don't start out romantic. They fizzled because they lack the necessary Sexual energy to lift off and Achieve orbit.

As a matter of fact, it's vitally important that you figure out if your guy friend likes you as quickly as possible. So that you can avoid any confusion and losing the spark a passion from the romance that could happen.

When you're really close to a guy, it can be very difficult to tell if he's just being friendly or if he's showing real interest in dating you. How do you know if he loves you or if he's just being a sweet friend?

You don't want to ask him directly and risk a really awkward conversation that loses a friend.

So what do you do?

Well that's what we're going to talk about…

Why does a guy suddenly want to date you when he's always been your friend?
There's a lot of reasons for this.

First one is of course simple chemistry. Sometimes a guy spends time without a girlfriend and realizes he really wants one. If there's a woman that's already in this life that he's comfortable with, it's only natural that he's going to think about escalating that to a relationship.

It's a perfect case of familiarity breeding desire.

Second, it could be his own desert island problems. You could say that his desperation drove him to wanting you as well. Sometimes a guy just realizes he needs a bed buddy and he starts to think, why not?

Hang on and I'm going to explain how you know if your guy friend likes you.

SIGN #1: You’ve met his family
Yes, it's one of those things that you normally look for in a romantic relationship. But if he has brought you to anything with his family - especially alone - you can be pretty sure he knows his family will think you're his girlfriend. And maybe he's trying to get you to think that too.

It's a little devious, but it's coming from a good heart.

He may also want to show you that his family is cool and fun to be around. Maybe hoping that you will feel at home and entertain the idea of dating him.

The more you already feel like you're in his family, the easier it is for you to see yourself in a relationship with him.

SIGN #2: One-on-one Hangouts
A really huge sign of his interest in dating you is when he arranges it so that you and him do things together. Alone.

If a guy is only interested in you as a friend, he won't let this sort of thing happen. He doesn't want you to get the wrong idea, so he won't do things with you without other friends.

You might go out every once in a while alone, but if it happens consecutively or frequently, you can bet your calendar that your guy friend really likes you.

SIGN #3: Physical affection is increasing
One of the sure signs of a man's interest is the amount of touching he does. Guys love to touch women that they're attracted to. In fact, we have a hard time resisting this behavior.

You probably experience this with guys you're not interested in who just won't take a hint. When a guy gets gropey it can get pretty tiresome.

So when a guy starts touching you a lot more, there's a good chance he's feeling more interested in a relationship with you.

He might:

Touch your arm more
Let his touch linger a bit more
Hold you in a hug for longer

He might also -

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