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Frustrated couples ask how to manage conflict in relationships, and rightly so. Conflict is just going to happen. Thus so,, we'd better be experts in how to manage conflict in relationships. Emotional, Relational Connection at the Heart during the middle of Conflict is # 5 of a 5-part series examining how to manage conflict in relationships. Even during the midst of the conflict, you've got to get to the place that you know that you're not going anywhere and you know that the other person is not going anywhere. You know with certainty that you are going to work thru this. Having this knowledge, this safety net, allow for you to know how to manage conflict in relationships. Communicating Better with your Partner during Conflict. This video clearly paints the picture of the result of good conflict management - the great intimacy that can be birthed in marriage and in couples. This series can be used along-side marriage counseling or it can be used as a stand-alone teaching series helping couples to birth great communication and stress management - may be even relieving you of the need for couples counseling. Knowing how to manage conflict in relationships is key. Joyfulness, peacefulness, connection, that what we're after. We also, deep down, really want to matter and know with certainty that we matter to another. Even when this happens, and we know it, conflict will still at times arise. Thus so, we've got to be ready and know how to manage conflict in relationships. Maybe, you're there now. There are a lot of great books and videos on marriage. The Gottman Method is based on upon research. The research of Drs. John and Julia Gottman, explains that there are 4 things that snuff out relationships. John dubbed them "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" for "When you hear the hoofbeats, the end is soon to come." The other part of their research teaches us to use 4 things to defeat the Horsemen. That's where this video series comes in. This 5-part series uses the letters DANCE to depict how Master Couples defeat the Horsemen by dancing well - they know how to manage conflict in relationships. This fifth and final video, in this series, is the really cool part. It shows the result of using the first 4 antidote skills: E: Emotional Connection at the Heart During Conflict. It's easy to have a connection when things are good, but by employing these 4 skills you arrive at a place that you know with certainty that no one is going anywhere. When the dust settles the other person is still going to be there. That's pretty special. If you haven't already done so, go back to Video #1 (Directly Turn Toward vs Turn Away) and watch them consecutively. You won't be sorry. Give it a shot! You've got absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain. Get on that road to feeling really, really good… Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE! Here is our social media that you can FOLLOW for updates and posts: Facebook - @boldneverbitter Twitter - @boldneverbitter Attribution: The Office - US TV Show Hi, everyone! Thanks for checking out Tabletop Coffee on YouTube! By trade, Keith Dunn is a Network Computer Engineer, and Chuck Rodgers is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Together, they are Tabletop Coffee. We love coffee, we love to chat, and we love to do life well. Our purpose, as our Tagline says, is to do life well by being Bold and never Bitter. ****PLEASE READ**** ****Disclaimer**** If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911, or your local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency department for care. Information provided with this channel is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice and is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. The information provided is strictly informational. You should not use information on this website or the information on links or products from or featured on this site or the content on this YouTube channel (or any part thereof) to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease. For any of these or related issues, please consult a qualified professional.

Being Nurturing as Opposed to having Contempt is # 3 of the 5-part video series, Communicating better with your Partner during Conflict. This video set teaches you the conflict resolution skills that you need - especially applying it to marriage and couples. The series enhances marriage counseling or it can be used to enhance communication and stress management so that maybe couples counseling is not even necessary. If you've not seen the first 2 videos in this series, we heavily encourage you to check them out prior to watching this video. Connection with another. That's what we're after. We want joy. We want peace. Even great couples struggle from time to time, so we'd better know what to do. Conflict just happens. It steals our joy. Thanks to the dynamic research conducted by Drs. John and Julia Gottman, we know why conflict arises and we know what to do about it. They point out that there are 4 relationship killers. John has named them "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" and says that when you hear them coming you know that the end is just behind them. That's also the good news. If we know what kills relationships, we also know what makes them thrive. This 5 part video series uses a simple concept called The DANCE, and uses each letter to represent one concept to do and not do. It's that simple. This third video talks about the third antidote: Nurturing Your Partner vs Having Contempt. These short minutes could change your life and everyone in it. It's worth it, right? Watching these short moments could change everything and change it quickly. Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE! Here is our social media that you can FOLLOW for updates and posts: Facebook - @boldneverbitter Twitter - @boldneverbitter Attribution: Death Becomes Her - Directed by Robert Zemeckis - Produced by Universal Pictures Hi, everyone! Thanks for checking out Tabletop Coffee on YouTube! By trade, Keith Dunn is a Network Computer Engineer, and Chuck Rodgers is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Together, they are Tabletop Coffee. We love coffee, we love to chat, and we love to do life well. Our purpose, as our Tagline says, is to do life well by being Bold and never Bitter. ****PLEASE READ**** ****Disclaimer**** If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911, or your local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency department for care. Information provided with this channel is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice and is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. The information provided is strictly informational. You should not use information on this website or the information on links or products from or featured on this site or the content on this YouTube channel (or any part thereof) to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease. For any of these or related issues, please consult a qualified professional.

We continue to look at how to manage conflict in relationships. Even master couples have conflict. Thus so, knowing how to manage conflict in relationships is of utmost importance. This week is #4 of a 5 part series, and we look specifically at how to give your concern in a way that can be heard in order to demonstrate how to manage conflict in relationships rather than just continuing to struggle. This video set helps to illustrate how to deliver conflict management - particularly affecting marriage and couples. This series addresses how to manage conflict in relationships and can partner with marriage counseling or be used to birth really good communication and birth stress management, never having to get couples counseling. We all want similar things…connection…joy…peace? These things doing happen when we don't understand how to manage conflict in relationships. We also want to know that above all things, that we matter, really matter to someone. Even when we do know this, there will just be times that conflict erupts. Because of this certainty, we'd also better be really good at repairing. But how? It's hard, we know. The is great news. Thanks to the stellar research of Drs. John and Julia Gottman, we now know about the 4 things that destroy marriages. John humorously tagged them "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" and says that when you hear the thumping of their hooves, the demise of the relationship is at hand. It's odd, but the other side of that same coin is also the good news. We also know the 4 things that save relationships bringing about a template for how to manage conflict in relationships. In this 5 part video series, we use the word DANCE to illustrate what Master couples do. Each letter represents one unhealthy thing to avoid and one skill to employ as the antidote. This fourth video focuses upon the fourth antidote: Concerning vs Criticizing. We've go to give our concerns…our complaints in a way that can be heard. Invest these few minutes in these 5 videos and see what happen. You might just change your life and someone else's too… Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE! Here is our social media that you can FOLLOW for updates and posts: Facebook - @boldneverbitter Twitter - @boldneverbitter Attribution Rush Hour - Directed by Brett Ratner - 1998 Friday the 13th Part 2 - Directed by Steve Miner - 1981 Hi, everyone! Thanks for checking out Tabletop Coffee on YouTube! By trade, Keith Dunn is a Network Computer Engineer, and Chuck Rodgers is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Together, they are Tabletop Coffee. We love coffee, we love to chat, and we love to do life well. Our purpose, as our Tagline says, is to do life well by being Bold and never Bitter. ****PLEASE READ**** ****Disclaimer**** If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911, or your local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency department for care. Information provided with this channel is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice and is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. The information provided is strictly informational. You should not use information on this website or the information on links or products from or featured on this site or the content on this YouTube channel (or any part thereof) to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease. For any of these or related issues, please consult a qualified professional.

Leaning how to manage conflict in relationships can be a tough skill to learn. It just can be; however, does it make it less important to really know how to manage conflict in relationships? Accepting of your Partner's Influence is the # 2 of a 5-part video series, helping us to know how to manage conflict in relationships and to assist us in communicating better with your partner during conflict. This video set helps in describing conflict resolution - for couples and marriage. This series can be used in conjunction with marriage counseling or maybe you can use it to learn good communication techniques to bring about stress management and maybe not have to have couples counseling at all. It is vital that we understand how to how to manage conflict in relationships with those that we love. If you've not seen #1 (D) in this series, we heavily encourage you to check it out prior to watching this video. Peace, connection, and a joyful life. It's what we want, right? Sure you do and it's not too much to ask. We want to know that we matter to the other person. Despite our good intentions, conflict is just going to take place. Thus so, what then? Now we know. Thanks to the ground breaking research of Drs. John and Julia Gottman, we're not guessing anymore. We know what not to do and we know what to do. John calls the not to do's the "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse." When you hear them coming, the end is not far away. The other side of that same coin is that wonderful connection is not far away, either. The antidote to the Four Horsemen is available, and this video show you what to do. This 5 video series teaches you what these things are and it teaches you how to implement them right away. If you do these things, you can't have distance. This series is based on the acrostic, D-A-N-C-E. We like to say: "The Masters really know how to DANCE." This second video focuses upon the second antidote: Accepting of Your Partner's Influence vs Being Defensive. These short minutes could change your life and everyone in it. It's worth it, right? Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE! Here is our social media that you can FOLLOW for updates and posts: Facebook - @boldneverbitter Twitter - @boldneverbitter Attribution: Alex & the List - Director Harris Goldberg Hi, everyone! Thanks for checking out Tabletop Coffee on YouTube! By trade, Keith Dunn is a Network Computer Engineer, and Chuck Rodgers is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Together, they are Tabletop Coffee. We love coffee, we love to chat, and we love to do life well. Our purpose, as our Tagline says, is to do life well by being Bold and never Bitter. ****PLEASE READ**** ****Disclaimer**** If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911, or your local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency department for care. Information provided with this channel is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice and is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. The information provided is strictly informational. You should not use information on this website or the information on links or products from or featured on this site or the content on this YouTube channel (or any part thereof) to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease. For any of these or related issues, please consult a qualified professional.

It is difficult to know how to how to manage conflict in relationships. It really is. In marriage, parenting, or other relationships, knowing how to manage conflict in relationships is vital. Learning how to Directly Turn Toward as Opposed to Turning Away is the first (1st) of a 5-part video series where you will learn effective conflict resolution techniques to help you Communicate Better with your Partner and prevent divorce. These videos describe how to birth conflict management - especially regarding conflict within the confines of marriage or couples. This series can augment marriage counseling or it can be used to enhance communication and usher in stress management without ever having to receive couples counseling. In summary, this series show us how to manage conflict in relationships. We want joy, peace, and connection. We want to know that we matter to someone. However, since conflict will take place, even in the best of relationships, and because conflict desires to steal joy from our lives, what will you do about it? We know from the research of Drs. John and Julia Gottman, that there are 4 things that kill relationships. John calls these 4 things "The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" for "When you hear the hoofbeats, the end is soon to come." The good news is that the inverse of these four things, causes relationships to heal and thrive. This 5 part video series depicts these healing concepts in a very simple way that anyone can grasp and easily implement. If you do these 4 things, you can't have a bad relationship. We teach the skills to help us know how to manage conflict in relationships. After watching the first video "D" in the DANCE be sure to check out the others in the series. Together, the DANCE can help you communicate better with your partner in everything you talk about. Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE! Here is our social media that you can FOLLOW for updates and posts: Facebook - @boldneverbitter Twitter - @boldneverbitter Attribution: Beautiful Creatures. An Alcon Entertainment production. Directed by Richard LaGravenese Hi, everyone! Thanks for checking out Tabletop Coffee on YouTube! By trade, Keith Dunn is a Network Computer Engineer, and Chuck Rodgers is a Licensed Professional Counselor and a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist. Together, they are Tabletop Coffee. We love coffee, we love to chat, and we love to do life well. Our purpose, as our Tagline says, is to do life well by being Bold and never Bitter. ****PLEASE READ**** ****Disclaimer**** If you are, or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911, or your local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency department for care. Information provided with this channel is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice and is not intended to replace the services of a therapist, physician, or other qualified professional, nor does it constitute a therapist-client or physician or quasi-physician relationship. The information provided is strictly informational. You should not use information on this website or the information on links or products from or featured on this site or the content on this YouTube channel (or any part thereof) to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease. For any of these or related issues, please consult a qualified professional.