Empowered Parenting - Getting Back To The Basics

Whether you have one child or six children there are certain rules that do apply. Set up the structure and the consequences in advance. Be prepared to run your family like a small business. Everyone has a role. Everybody has responsibilities. It’s hard to fire a child but a consequence works just as well. Get ready to take back control in the family. 

We are discussing the importance of implementing Stucture in the the home.

God was teaching me how to trust him. This is a powerful message. Check it out.

I promise it won't hurt, and will only take a couple of minutes. Such a small thing can bring HUGE results. It did for me, and others that I know. What can it hurt? What are you willing to do to help yourself feel better about this life that you are living? If you want a happy life you must go after it. You can't just sit around and expect it to happen. You need to go after it like its your job.

Are you as a parent running your home, or do your children run your home? This is an extremely important question to ask yourself and to be really honest. It is too much responsibility for your children to dictate how your house runs. It is your responsibility as a parent to create a peaceful happy home so that your children can grow up in peace. To do that you need a few tips to teach you how to create that atmosphere. Let’s talk about that. 

It is so frustrating when I know I’m right on a subject and I cannot get someone to see my point of you. Do you think like this? Do you wonder why with all of your great points of you that you can’t get someone else to see it your way? How do I learn to just love people when they really disagree with me?

This is a major tip. Most people do not do this and it is so important. I have seen major results from doing this. It is a game changer.

Here are the three steps that you must focus on if you truly want happiness. You have to do it on purpose. If you’re struggling with life you need to take this on like a job. Nothing is more important than finding your happy place. It affects every aspect of your life. Take a few minutes listen and then take action.

This is the top question asked in Google when talking about toddlers. Does it get easier? The answer is a Big Maybe. It all depends on you. What will you do to set yourself up for success? There are things that you need to establish in a child such as obedience, and respect that must be established to make the later years better. If this never gets established than it most likely will not get easier. You will always be having battles with your children to get them to do what you want. It is so worth it to start when your children are young to create an obedient child. This will work for you through the whole childs life. You must create a Parent ruled home, and not a child ruled home. Who is in charge in your home? So to answer this question of will it get easier? It is totally up to you. Do the work now so you can enjoy the fruits of your labor later.

I hear it all of the time from parents. They tell me that I am not the kind of person that likes to play. They feel that this gives them an out to getting down and playing with their children. This is just an easy out. You must learn to play with your children. It is the best thing that you can do to build a strong bond with your children. I guess I am saying this. It doesn't matter if you don't like to play. You need to get over that and do it anyway. A lot of adults don't think that they like to play, and somehow they then give themselves permission to just not play with the kids. This is a mistake, and something you truly need to look at, and reconsider. Children need a balance of love and discipline. Part of the Love side is playing with them. That is a very loving thing to do with your children. Don't always say no. Even if you play for 10 minutes a day it is a start. Just think about it.

It is so important to have a balance of love and discipline when raising our children. If this is out of balance our children will suffer because of it. If there is only love without the discipline we will raise spoiled, entitled children who will not listen to us as parents, but will also not feel the need to listen to other authority figures. It is our job to allow our children to understand there are consequences to our actions. On the other hand if we are too strong with the discipline, and weak on showing love we will raise angry children who do not feel loved. They will grow distant from us as they grow older. It truly is a balance. Check out my book where I talk in more detail on this subject. https://www.amazon.com/Empowered-Parenting-Getting-Back-Basics/dp/B08D4Y55J8/ref=sr_1_4?keywords=jane+farano&qid=1636758214&sr=8-4 Our children deserve us figuring this out.

There Is A Better Way. If you take the time and learn these basic techniques while your child is young it is so much easier. It becomes a way of life. It is never to late no matter how old your child. The techniques still work. This is about learning how to be the leader of your home. Who is running the house? You and your spouse, or the kids. It is a very important question to answer, and answer very honestly. Here are some really good tips in a very small book. It is short and simple, and to the point. Check out Empowered Parenting - Getting Back To The Basics by Jane Farano https://www.amazon.com/Empowered-Parenting-Getting-Back-Basics/dp/B08D4Y55J8/ref=sr_1_4?keywords=jane+farano&qid=1636758214&sr=8-4

This message is an interesting perspective that I had never heard before. This is coming from someone who has a gift from the Lord of healing. Listen to the whole story using the link here: https://subspla.sh/dj3hs8s

As good people we are raised to Live and Let Live. There is some truth in that. However, I would like to challenge you to consider whether you are being brainwashed into thinking that wrong is right, and you have become accepting of things that are clearly wrong. There are things from my point of view that are clearly wrong that we are being told to accept as “Normal” and quite honestly “Right” that from not only my point of view, but more importantly God’s point of view are clearly “Wrong”. You need to become very clear on what you think with a step back and take an honest look at a few things.

I believe when you can understand empathy and how it leads to forgiveness it is a healer of the soul. Hurting People Hurt People. That is just a fact. It doesn’t make what they did ok by any means. It gives it an understanding. It allows you the ability to release it and let God heal that person. You need to release the hurt to get to real forgiveness. You want to understand it is not up to you to get revenge or even to fix that person. That is in Gods hands. Empathy allowed me to get there. Watch the video and learn more about this. Don’t misunderstand me. It does not necessarily mean reconciliation or even ever speaking to the person again. It is about releasing the negative energy that goes with unforgiveness.

If you are a parent it is imperative that you know what your children are watching and listening to. It is your responsibility as a parent to supervise all aspects of your child’s social media, YouTube and any other Internet sites. If you don’t know how to search the history find someone to help you. Do not ignore this responsibility as a parent.

You can not have a close connection to God the Father when you only talk to him during difficult times. Imagine your kids only talking to you when they need something. That is no kind of relationship.

This Is No Joke. Your well being affects everyone around you. Your family especially. Do you have a victim mentality? Are you happy? You need to know the answers to these questions. If the answer is no then you need to do everything in your power to fix this right now. Don't let another day go by without taking your mental help seriously. Empowered Living E-Books Empowered Parenting E-Book https://www.amazon.com/Jane-Farano/e/B086Z4HFWD?&linkCode=sl2&tag=crystallife-20&linkId=bdb741f3dc0056bfb00fefadee78c108&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl Prager U - The Victim Mentality Creates Evil Video https://www.instagram.com/tv/CVbbilere2C/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

You have to own your life. 100% accountability. You allow people to mistreat you. You also have to retrain people if you want them to treat you better. It starts with you. Watch the video to find out more on how to do this. Empowered Parenting: Getting Back To The Basics https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08D4Y55J8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_AT6EQ0HPX6DNZGMQNW6E Grab the book. Empowered Parenting-Getting Back To The Basics.

Welcome video for new members into the Facebook Group - Empowered Parenting - Getting Back To The Basics. Be The Leader Of Your Family. https://www.amazon.com/Empowered-Parenting-Getting-Back-Basics/dp/B08D4Y55J8/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=jane+farano&qid=1635175389&sr=8-3

You need to know the answer to this question. Don’t just assume that your child would never bully anyone. Be open to the truth if it comes to you. Also, don’t ignore situations where your child is being bullied We talk about all of this.

Do your part and let God do the rest.