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The dark psychology of Sesame Street
Children will be children, so they say. Those adults manning those child puppets, are bringing their adult behaviors and normalizing them in front of children... and the parent's children on tv.
Those who are working out their trauma will understand the trauma behind the facade of sesame street characters.
Say my name
There is one red flag that let's you know who you are dealing with.
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The socially inept narcissist
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Have you ever noticed that the narcissist is socially awkward? Have you ever noticed the people around you who are not? This videence o will help you understand that it is NOT YOU, it is the narcissist and they are HOLDING YOU BACK!
Awaken your social intelligence by gaining yourself some skills. This video will tell you how.
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The forests have their secrets
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This is my story. In 2008 I had a rare and unusual sighting of Bigfoot. It was a sighting that shook me to the core of my being. My sighting took me on a 10 year long quest to bring the TRUTH to public awareness.
Mysteries don't easily reveal their secrets, and it turns out, humanity would rather not have those secrets revealed.
Denying what they are, and making them out to be what you want them to be does not dismiss the encounters some of us have. The devil is real, the devil is in the details and the supernatural comes walking out of the shadows if you are brave enough to take Great Courage as Jesus says...
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The Blood Covenant of Elohim
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The blood holds many secrets. Science calls it the elixir of life. Yet it is something science cannot duplicate. The blood of man holds a secret that the enemy of this world has exploited... until now.
Discover the secrets and lies why there is a war on blood because the truth will set you free.
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A study in His Word book trailer
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***** THIS BOOK CONTAINS S-e-xual content not intended for young readers. This book contains historical Roman content that may offend some readers. ******
About this book:
A study in His word reveals the dark history of Roman rule as described through the teachings of Jesus in the Book of Matthew. Discover the blood covenant and it's spiritual relevance today through hidden Hebraic detail of the birth, death and resurrection of Jesus. Become inspired in your life as you learn the wrath of God is on all those who divide and conquer.
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The stone cold truth
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Some things need to be said. I was awakened at 4 am this morning, as God shared some thoughts about our trauma with me.
He wants our devotion. He wants our loyalty and we can't give ourselves fully and completely to Him until we learn to let go...
How we learn to let go is by seeing and understanding the truth. The message in this video makes sense and it may hurt, but I personally would rather be hurt with the truth, than to be sedated with a lie.
I love you my friends, and God loves us. We are family and together we will heal to rise!
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weak men of the narcissist kind create weak women
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Weak men force a woman to submit to her masculine side to forsake her femininity. This is how a weak and vulnerable woman is created. She cannot nurture, she cannot love, she only hates through force driven by anger.
This video brings the nuances of scripture to help you the viewer understand that your healing is essential by looking at yourself and changing your behavior, not the behavior of the narcissist.
This video shares with you how a divided house cannot stand, and as much as the narcissist causes division in the home; we are naturally divided in house before the narcissist comes along.
Discover how to unite your house by creating a balance of your own masculinity and femininity ( in males and females) and learn to be a strong man or woman to help strengthen others.
You are an ambassador for Jesus; it's time to own that, by self discovery.
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Be prepared
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Sometimes the lessons in life come with challenges. Challenges allow us to gain wisdom. One cannot grow wise without learning some lessons and sometimes those lessons, are hard. So pay attention by staying prepared.
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Have you ever noticed?
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Just a short little rant as family members expect a lot out of those they abuse and give NOTHING in return... nothing of substance. Their barely bare minimum to them is effort... have you ever noticed... IT'S NOT?
I'm done my rant. Blessings and go find your peace by making your day great!
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The narcissist is attracted to your attachment style
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This video came about from answering a question on Quora. The question; 'Why do I love the narcissist'? It isn't love; it is your attachment style and when you can figure that out, you can understand why the narcissist does to you what they do.
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Listen to life's metaphor
You want God to start changing things around in your life? Start seeing life from His perspective. Metaphors are spiritual and I have a spiritual lesson to share with you...
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Life happens, it doesn't JUST happen
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Life happens in a way that is meant to get our attention. Life happens to get our attention to help us to see our behavior when we respond to the narcissist.
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That beautiful person you are looking for is first found in you
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Beautiful people are everywhere! We just have to look. But how do we know what to look for when all we meet is ugly narcissistic people at heart?
Listen to this quick video to help you on your journey of becoming successful at love!
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2 things to know to make your escape from narcissistic trauma
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Meeting people is not easy. To make those 'perfect' bonds we look for commonalities that have us relatable to one another. In searching for those compatibilities we make the mistake that leaves us vulnerable to the toxic ways of narcissism.
When we are vulnerable, that is when we are susceptible to the soul sucking ways of the parasitic person who only has ill intentions towards us. Discover the two things that must happen so that you can heal, and also keep you impervious for the beguiling ways of the next toxic person that tries to manipulate your vulnerabilities.
Be sure to watch this video, because in the NEXT video I will share with you exactly how to TEST the narcissist in a way that lets you know that they are setting you up to take the bait, because their reason is simple. You are love.
You are a Divine spiritual being living a physical experience and this video will show you that you CAN, YOU WILL and you MUST live your life as how you want, according to your spiritual rules because living how the narcissist lives- in the flesh, is not working for you; it's harming you.
Thank you for watching my friends. It has been a pleasure to share these videos with you and be vulnerable with you in my own healing journey. I couldn't have done this without you!
Much love!
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Triggering is not what you think
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Triggering, it is a defense mechanism, brought about when we are faced with defending ourselves before a narcissist.
The triggered effect is the means by which a narcissist pushes you to your limits.
We become triggered as a coping mechanism to deal with the trauma bond, the gaslighting and manipulations as we feel vilified and yet justified in our response.
Triggering, is our way out and it often feels like it is our last resort as we have no choice but to rage against the machinations of the toxic individual who methodically plans out our reactive ways just so that they can have their way; control over our emotions.
Triggering is a signals as much as it is a response and if we are listening, we will see to whom the triggering is really meant for. Do we trigger for the narcissist? Oh yes, but maybe there are times when our response to the narcissist is meant to get our attention from someone who lingers within and needs us to start paying attention.
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The spirit of Empathy
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Empathy is the glue that holds you to your soul. It is the binding agent that holds two hearts together. Empathy is rooted in love, and that's why you have so much of it.
We have ooodles amounts of empathy and we don't know what to do with it because we were never taught. Instead we were taught boundaries that kept empathy from protecting ourselves.
This video shares with you the hidden secrets of EMPATHY.
When you know, you know and there is NO going back!
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Free breakout coaching session: addressing the elephant in the room; people pleasing
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People pleasing is NOT what you think it is. In this video I share with you from my personal experience what people pleasing is, because I am a people pleaser. ( Not any more!) It's time to get real and honest if we have any HOPE for change to be the change we want to see in the world.
When you allow me to help you, we dig deep. This video is meant to help you to uncover some hidden answers to questions you have but are looking in the wrong direction.
What is people pleasing and why do we do it?
How does people pleasing prevent us from living in truth, authenticity and showing up real, raw and honestly in relationships?
knowing the truth does set you free. IF you'd like to talk, scoot me off an email. ( Email is given at the end of the video.)
Thanks for watching until the end. I hope this video is of some help to you in your journey of healing.
Blessings!
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momma's child
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There's something about a narcissist, you are darned if you do, and darned if you don't. What is behind their devalue and discard? It has everything to do with their mommas.
Narcissist's treat you exactly as how they felt they were treated by their mothers. That is because you are the replacement. The reason why the narcissist treats you horribly is because they WANT you to react; THEY NEED you to react and even if you do not respond as how they assume you will; they still have you judged, because NOTHING will change the way as how they see you.
THEY KNOW you are just like their mom and they will make you pay... because it might even feel good to them because pain and suffering is all they have ever known...
Here's a little secret: STOP Caring for the narcissist after they discard you because THEY WANT YOU TO COME BACK... just like a mom will open the door to their child's room after they have been punished and ask ' Hey we are going out for ice cream, you want to come along?' The narcissist takes you back, only to rinse and repeat. YOU are not their love interest. They are holding a life long grudge against their mother and through you they will make her pay, and they will make you pay too because you are a female who is a mother. ( Ever wonder why many narcissists seek out attention from divorced women who have children? OOOOH SNAP! )
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The sexual divergent narcissist is one of two masks
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A narcissist is an individual who has no boundaries. There isn't anything they wouldn't do. They are impostors and what you don't know about them can hurt you.
There are narcissists, and then there are narcissists. We have all had experience with a few, and what catches off guard are the masks they wear. The sexual divergent is a narcissist who is one of two masks.
In this video I talk about my encounter with a narcissist who appeared to be that special someone, but instead they hid a secret from me that I had no knowledge about. I had no knowledge because I am a heterosexual female who expected to be involved with a heterosexual male who was working towards the same end goals as I was; a forever partnership.
Future faking aside, I call out my own error in this video, as I also share with you the answer that you need to know, but no one tells you. Narcissists are sexually divergent, meaning that many are practicing homosexuals and bisexuals who remain latent; or hidden in the closet.
I use the term 'sexual divergent' to skirt around youtube algorithms as this topic needs to be addressed. The narcissist you know may not be who you think they are, as all narcissists vacilate between two masks; the cerebral and somatic masks that catch you off guard.
Fore armed is fore warned. Watch to the end as I share with you the two traits of narcissism you need to know.
Here's to your healing and your recovery. If you would like to talk please feel free to use my email: Shannongilmour@protonmail.com
Understanding that your narcissist partner did not love you because they couldn't as they identify themselves as LBTQ is a heartache that is difficult to recover from. This Video is about you and your healing and their secrets do not define who you are. You can rise above this, as this video shares with you GOD has your back. KARMA IS COMING FOR THEM.
Empathy is your friend, it is time to trust it as you marry yourself to it.
Blessings!
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The root of narcissism in men a biblical perspective
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Understanding the heart of a man will help the heart of a woman to make solid connections. In this video I share with you Rabbi Fieldman's perspective about the sensitivities of a man that can be traced back to the creation story.
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The ultimate secret of some narcissists
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Speaking from experience is very humbling in this video. I share with you some realizations about the narcissist who plays games with your heart so that they can hide themselves from friends and family because they are too cowardly to reveal themselves and face the ultimate rejection.
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The calm before the storm, biblical insight about Trauma
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Let me tell you a story about a man named Peter who walked upon the water... Hidden insight about trauma.
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Ever wonder why a narcissist acts as if they are entitled? Here's a short video to help you see that a self entitled narcissist is marked for life and here's what you can do to help yourself from feeling dazed, confused and abused.
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Battle on! Soldier up
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You are here for a purpose as you are heaven sent. What you have been through, the trials, the troubles... keep going. God's got you!
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