Your Kinky Friends

"The longest relationship in my life was with Depeche Mode." - Nicco Noire Why do so many of my cool kinky friends love Depeche Mode and goth synth music? Nicco Noire & The Commandant claim the music of Depeche Mode should be played in all BDSM dungeons. We discuss the Depeche Mode discography, the atmospheric style, drug use, romance, songs for edging, a DM tattooed woo-hah, and why "Christmas Island" is the best Depeche Mode song to flog to. "Martin Gore is naturally a kinky person." - The Commandant

“The Domme is an artist. The sub is an artist. It’s lifestyle art.” – Starla Nicco Noire and Starla Vamp sit down with Nicholas Tanek to discuss Nicco’s chastity sub (The Norwegian), fast chastity, male squirting, CBT, female sounding, and teasing the tip with a single finger. They also show us their metal cages! “It is a form of sexual meditation”

"I want my sex to hurt a little bit... so what?" Sir Ezra of Ask Ezra returns to talk about his new book The Path Through. We discuss being a professional male Dom, poetry, romance, healing, grief, body degradation, Jack Kerouac, sexting, and oral sex with hot sauce. "Be a good houseguest to your feelings."

"I'm excited for the the cum eating revolution." Maddie Royce, The Soccer Domme is back to talk about chastity play (even at airports), football, mental health, peeing in someone's eyes (watersports), kidnapping, medical play, soul-crushing JOI calls, Giallo films, Saltburn, and having a personal chastity sub. "I don't give a fuck about your dick."

YKF: Lilyann Laurent – 1.2024 w/ Nicholas Tanek “I had my rope top tie me to a tree next to a lake with lilipads.” Lilyann Laurent is the author of “Vulpes Niveus”. She is also a film director, singer-songwriter, spirituality influencer, and lifestyle brand designer. We discuss age-gap romance with older men, erotic fiction, poetry, the bond of rope/shibari, and primal play. “There aren’t enough bisexual women represented in media.”

YKF: Miztress Claudia -8. 2021 w/ Nicholas Tanek “When I was in the 3rd grade, I kicked **** in the balls. Then, they came back for more.” Miztress Claudia is a Dominatrix based out of Arizona. We talk CBT (branding, squishing, and burning testicles), strap-on play, needle play, feet, human toilets, and seeing how far she can shove her feet down a man’s throat. “I’ve done horrible things to penises.”

YKF: Sadist Sisters: Mrs. Vidian Vixen & Temptress Nyx - 4.2021 “You are always told to not kick men in the nuts… but then, they pay for it.” Mrs. Vidian Vixen & Temptress Nyx are The Sadist Sisters. We discuss Femdom, their dungeon, CBT, corporal punishment, torture, sissification, selling panties online, and burning balls with cigarettes. “I want to tie someone down and waterboard them.”

YKF: Miss Chris w/ Nicholas Tanek - (Spanko) - 8.2021 “(to practice spanking) Buy a ham and just start smacking it.” Miss Chris is a Professional Disciplinarian with a specialty in SPANKING. We discuss Spankacademy, her BDSM bed & breakfast (“Beat & Breakfast”) which she made into a complete boarding school. We discuss Victorian-style discipline and how she makes and sells her BDSM straps and toys. “I spanked the living bejesus out of him.”

VIDEO 12.2023: Nicco Noire Nurses Nicholas: Medical Play & Kink While In The Hospital Nicholas Tanek has been in the hospital for a month! Nicco Noire & Nicholas Tanek talk about how we should help our fellow kinksters who are sick and/or in the hospital. Then, we go off on talking about Medical Play, sounding, and more!

Caittrin Lee – 3.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek “I keep people under my bed… and in the closet.” Caittrin Lee is an International Dominatrix living the FemDom lifestyle. We discuss international jet-setting, hentai, the fetish for Asian women, Berlin, trampling, food, BDSM workshops, SPG, the intensity of the Femdom ball, medical play, and Singapore sex laws. “What if I use the speculum on female subs?”

VIDEO CHAT: Sissy Nicole – 11.2022 w/ Nicholas Tanek “There is nothing cotton on me right now.” Nicole is a gender-fluid pansexual sissy from West Yorkshire, known on TikTok as SissyNicole89. We discuss sissy culture, sissification, lingerie addiction, being in a constant state of arousal, Dr. Who, fake online Dommes, shaving, meeting her Senai, how we are all secret sluts, and how a petticoat can never be too puffy.

"A lot of teasing is inspiring me these days." Vex is a Dominatrix from Providence, RI who loves science fiction and film. We discuss Zen Buddhism, knife play, blood play, the healing power of kink, medical play, and humiliating sushi. We pitch David Fincher the film, "Dork Dom" starring Cthulhu. Vex also gives us detailed instructions on how to choke someone. "Razors are the easiest to make designs." "I prefer old-school medical play."

Venus In Bells (Mistress Kayla & Sorceress Bebe) – 9.2023 w/ Nicholas Tanek “My name is tattoed on a slave’s ass.” Venus In Bells (Mistress Kayla & Sorceress Bebe) – The Dominatrix duo, known for setting up BDSM events in Los Angeles, discuss throwing BDSM parties, chastity, sounding, and their custom-made CBT toy. They also gave us a tour of their impressive medical playroom. “That’s why I don’t do wrestling sessions anymore.”

VIDEO: The PANTYHOSE Episode w/ Nicco Noire & Starla Vamp “I’ve done so many scandalous things in fishnets.” – Starla Vamp Nicco Noire (The Pantyhose Princess) & Starla Vamp (Femdom Bride) show off their pantyhose collection and talk about their love of pantyhose, stockings, crossdressers, leg worship, and the transformative element of wearing fishnets.

Lady Bellatrix – 1.2023 “I use a strap-on so often, I cannot remember the first time I used one.” Lady Bellatrix is a British Domme in Paris, France. We talk about latex, rubber, pegging, ballbusting, the chastity mantra, carrying dildos across the border, interrogation boot camp, and Han Solo in vac beds. “You can smell the pubes singe.”