A Developmental Path to Male Homosexuality
The development of male homosexuality. This is a brief summary, synthesizing the reports of thousands of homosexual men describing their childhood experiences and recurrent themes. Every individual is unique, every story is different. The most common qualitative themes as self-reported by men with same sex attractions are depicted.
Treating Trauma Changed My Sexual Feelings
Watch how sexuality changes, step-by-step. Reintegrative Therapy triggers spontaneous sexually change as a byproduct of trauma reprocessing. In contrast with so-called "conversion therapy," the method is the same treatment for heterosexuality, and any shifts in sexuality are the byproduct, not the goal. Peer-reviewed studies on sexual fluidity are described.
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References:
Diamond, L. & Rosky, C. (2016). Scrutinizing Immutability: Research on Sexual Orientation and U.S. Legal Advocacy for Sexual Minorities. Journal of Sex Research, 00:1-29. DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2016.1139665
F. Jebelli, M. Maaroufi, M. R. Maracy & M. Molaeinezhad (2018) Effectiveness of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) on the sexual function of Iranian women with lifelong vaginismus, Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 33:3, 325-338, DOI: 10.1080/14681994.2017.1323075
Mustaky, B., Kuper, L., and Geene, G. (2014). Chapter 19: Development of sexual orientation and identity. In Tolman, D., & Diamond, L., Co-Editors-in-Chief (2014). APA Handbook of Sexuality and Psychology. Washington D.C.: American Psychological Association, 1 :609-610. See also: Roberts, A., Glymour, M., & Koenen, K. (2014). Considering alternative explanations for the associations among childhood adversity, childhood abuse, and adult sexual orientation: Reply to Bailey and Bailey (2013) and Rind (2013), Archives of Sexual Behavior 43:191-196.
Neff, K. D., Kirkpatrick, K., & Rude, S. S. (2007). Self-compassion and adaptive psychological functioning. Journal of Research in Personality, 41, 139–154. http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.jrp.2006.03.004
Nicolosi, Jr. J.J. (2018). Resolving Trauma and Addiction: The Reintegrative Protocol. Journal of Human Sexuality, 9, 59-69.
Parent, M.C., Ferriter, K.P. (2018) The Co-Occurrence of Asexuality and Self-Reported Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Diagnosis and Sexual Trauma Within the Past 12 Months Among U.S. College Students. Archives of Sexual Behavior, May;47(4):1277-1282.
Pela, C., & Sutton, P. M. (2021) Sexual Attraction Fluidity and Well-Being in Men: A Therapeutic Outcome Study. Journal of Human Sexuality, 12 61-86.
Sabatinelli D., Flaisch T., Bradley M. M., Fitzsimmons J. R., Lang P. J. (2004). Affective picture perception: gender differences in visual cortex? Neuroreport 15, 1109–1112.
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Treating Trauma Changed My Sexual Feelings
Watch how sexuality changes, step-by-step. Reintegrative Therapy triggers spontaneous sexually change as a byproduct of trauma reprocessing. In contrast with so-called "conversion therapy," the method is the same treatment for heterosexuality, and any shifts in sexuality are the byproduct, not the goal. Peer-reviewed studies on sexual fluidity are described.
Visit reintegrativetherapy.com
References:
Diamond, L. & Rosky, C. (2016). Scrutinizing Immutability: Research on Sexual Orientation and U.S. Legal Advocacy for Sexual Minorities. Journal of Sex Research, 00:1-29. DOI: 10.1080/00224499.2016.1139665
F. Jebelli, M. Maaroufi, M. R. Maracy & M. Molaeinezhad (2018) Effectiveness of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) on the sexual function of Iranian women with lifelong vaginismus, Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 33:3, 325-338, DOI: 10.1080/14681994.2017.1323075
Mustaky, B., Kuper, L., and Geene, G. (2014). Chapter 19: Development of sexual orientation and identity. In Tolman, D., & Diamond, L., Co-Editors-in-Chief (2014). APA Handbook of Sexuality and Psychology. Washington D.C.: American Psychological Association, 1 :609-610. See also: Roberts, A., Glymour, M., & Koenen, K. (2014). Considering alternative explanations for the associations among childhood adversity, childhood abuse, and adult sexual orientation: Reply to Bailey and Bailey (2013) and Rind (2013), Archives of Sexual Behavior 43:191-196.
Neff, K. D., Kirkpatrick, K., & Rude, S. S. (2007). Self-compassion and adaptive psychological functioning. Journal of Research in Personality, 41, 139–154. http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.jrp.2006.03.004
Nicolosi, Jr. J.J. (2018). Resolving Trauma and Addiction: The Reintegrative Protocol. Journal of Human Sexuality, 9, 59-69.
Parent, M.C., Ferriter, K.P. (2018) The Co-Occurrence of Asexuality and Self-Reported Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Diagnosis and Sexual Trauma Within the Past 12 Months Among U.S. College Students. Archives of Sexual Behavior, May;47(4):1277-1282.
Pela, C., & Sutton, P. M. (2021) Sexual Attraction Fluidity and Well-Being in Men: A Therapeutic Outcome Study. Journal of Human Sexuality, 12 61-86.
Sabatinelli D., Flaisch T., Bradley M. M., Fitzsimmons J. R., Lang P. J. (2004). Affective picture perception: gender differences in visual cortex? Neuroreport 15, 1109–1112.
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Powerfully Healing My Sex Abuse
Resolving Greg's childhood sex abuse triggers powerful changes in his sexuality. This was accomplished using the Feeling State Addiction Protocol, by a Reintegrative Therapist®.
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Healing My Porn Addiction
Can pornography addiction be healed? James meets with a professional Reintegrative Therapist® for help.
For more info, visit www.reintegrativetherapy.com
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Exploring my heterosexuality
Watch a Reintegrative Therapy® demonstration of how shifts in attachment style have been shown to lead to changes in sexual feelings for many men who used this approach. Statistically significant increases in heterosexual attractions experiences, and statistically significant increases in a heterosexual identity were found in men who used this approach, according to large-scale, longitudinal published findings [1].
Watch the Dynamic Assertion Protocol in action, and discover the evidence-based effects in this video.
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[1] Pela, C., & Sutton, P. M. (2021) Sexual Attraction Fluidity and Well-Being in Men: A Therapeutic Outcome Study. Journal of Human Sexuality, 12 61-86.
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Homosexual Attraction is NOT What You Think it Is
In this interview, we explore how it's possible to change your sexual feelings through specific mindfulness exercises. The man Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr. interviews discovers that he's attracted to men who embody characteristics that he wishes he had for himself. He's attracted to men who have strengths in areas he has weaknesses. After taking him through a mindful practice, the level of attraction he has toward his ideal man has changed. How?
1:00 – Intro to how mindfulness can help someone change their sexuality without trying to
10:00 – Pro Gay vs Anti-Gay vs. Mindfulness perspective
13:00 – A shift down in sexual attraction after comparing one’s feelings toward one's self
16:00 – Mindful Exercise quickly decreases attraction to the Same Sex--- WITHOUT trying to change one's attractions.
18:20 – Overcoming Shame
25:00 – What is he ACTUALLY attracted to?
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Healing my Binge Eating
Miranda considers this session her powerful first step toward freedom from emotional eating.
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How One Man Changed His Homosexuality Through Reintegrative Therapy
Reintegrative Therapy can shift sexual feelings in men and has been shown to be safe and effective. The resolution of traumatic memories is the goal. A sexuality change is sometimes a byproduct of traumatic memory resolution. Multiple peer-reviewed studies have demonstrated how trauma processing triggers spontaneous sexuality change. In this video, we demonstrate this process with a men with unwanted same-sex attractions.
1:00 – Intro to Reintegrative Therapy and How it Works
3:00 – Known studies proving sexual attraction changes are safe and effective
6:00 – A patient being guided through the process
13:00 – Patient transcends the trance state to become self-aware of his unmet need and hidden pain driving his attraction
17:00 – Exploring childhood trauma
19:30 – What is EMDR and demonstration
25:00 – Revisiting the sexual fantasy to discover a decrease in the feeling
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This changed my sexuality
Watch Reintegrative Therapy. John considers this session a powerful step in treating his childhood trauma.
Published evidence reveals the Reintegrative Protocol™ often triggers spontaneous changes in sexual feelings as a byproduct of trauma processing and has been shown to be both safe and effective. [1]
On average, these clients were consistently found to show decreases distress, such as anxiety, depression and suicidality as well as overall increases in measures of psychological health, such as increased functioning in social roles, improvements in quality of life and improvements in interpersonal relationships.
Basic information: reintegrativetherapy.com
Scientific evidence: reintegrativetherapy.com/science
Multiple peer-reviewed studies have demonstrated how trauma processing triggers spontaneous sexuality change:
APA’s Ethical Principle E protects clients’ right to self-determination [2]. Clients have the right to set their own therapy goals. This is is a “client-centered approach.” Reintegrative Therapy® clients are in the driver's seat of their own therapy.
Contrast this with so-called "conversion therapy," (a totally different approach)-- which is broad, ill-defined, no ethics code, no governing body and has sexuality change as its goal (rather than a byproduct).
Commentary by Dr. Joseph Nicolosi, Jr.
[1] Pela, C., & Sutton, P. M. (2021) Sexual Attraction Fluidity and Well-Being in Men: A Therapeutic Outcome Study. Journal of Human Sexuality, 12 61-86.
[2] https://www.apa.org/monitor/jun04/ethics
See also: Nicolosi, Jr. J.J. (2018). Resolving Trauma and Addiction: The Reintegrative Protocol. Journal of Human Sexuality, 9, 59-69.
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